From Devastated to Unstoppable

In 2022 I had a profound identity change happen that completely changed how I look at myself and at life. In December of 2022 I found myself feeling stuck, trapped in a cycle of stagnation and self-doubt. No matter what I tried, I couldn't seem to break free or make any significant progress in my personal or professional life. I felt like I could make some progress in my business but it seemed to come at the cost of making my personal life worse. As I would work really hard at making my business grow and make more of an income I found that I became more and more stressed out and spent less and less time with my family. When I was with them I would be so stressed out that I was always in a bad mood. My financial success was coming at the cost of losing my personal relationships with the people I loved most.

Something had to give, because I was on my way to losing everything even though on the outside looking in, I was succeeding to some degree.

Then my world came crashing down in December of 2022. Apparently my 5 year old son was acting out pretty badly at school and I didn't even know. His school principle called me into his office to have a chat. As I sat down in the chair the first words out the principles mouth was "We are at a point where we need to call child services on you."

I was completely blindsided as I knew nothing about what was happening at school and the school had never even so much as made a complaint about my son to me. I was completely bewildered and in shock. What came next was absolutely shocking to hear and made me really question myself as a person.

This school principle then continued to accuse me of things I hadn't done, he told me to my face that I was a deadbeat welfare mom who smoked pot and didn't care about my kids. I defended myself explaining that none of this was true and that I had full time job, was completely sober and indeed was doing my absolute best to take care of my kids as a single mother. (I have 3 young children.)

I ended up walking out of that office feeling beside myself questioning who I was and how others were looking at me. Was I so stressed and burned out that people honestly thought I was doing drugs? Was I really giving off that kind of impression?

The school did in fact end up calling child services and an investigation into my life and my parenting had started. The school had informed child services that I was a welfare mom who did drugs and that I had done these things to my son that were untrue. My world was in devastation!

My life felt like a double sided mirror as I looked at how my business was going and I was having success I didn't think was possible for myself and I felt on top of the world even though I was feeling burned out. I had earned $100,000 for 2022 by December and I was coaching some very big clients like a bank manager and a real FBI agent for example. But on the other hand I was being investigated by child services with the impression that I was a deadbeat welfare mom who did drugs every day and neglected and abused her children. The two types of personality traits couldn't be further apart from each other.

I really started to question myself. Who was I? Who did people think I am? What do I really want? Am I spending too much time working and not enough time with my kids? Did they feel neglected? Was my success really worth losing my kids emotionally? Was I losing them emotionally?

I knew that I wasn't going to lose my kids to child services simply because all the accusations were untrue and I have known people who have done some really bad stuff and still have their kids. But having to prove my life to someone wasn't so comfortable either.

Child services quickly closed their investigation finding no fault and the school staff got in a lot of trouble from the city's school board for false accusations and for calling child services on a parent with no viable cause other than because my child was acting out at school and they were angry with my 5 year old child.

But this devastating event had me start questioning my life in great depth. It had me questioning who I was and how I was living my life. I ended up going through a mental breakdown and having an identity crisis.

I had never made a $100,000 before and I didn't even know I had made that much until I looked at my numbers for tax purposes. When I realized how much I had made I started shaking because that number felt so big to me. Then I felt like how can I have made so much and yet feel so broke? I started questioning the concept of money. I started looking at my spending and realized that about 75% of the money I had earned had gone into business expenses. That my overall personal income was only $25,000. Then I started to really question if the business was even worth it? I felt like I was having real success and money was coming in, but in the end I wasn't really having the true success I thought I was having. In reality I was working my tail off, stressed out and burned out trying so hard to build my business to create a life for my kids and myself that I could be proud of. But I was truly broke and I also wasn't being the best mom I could be because I was so stressed and burned out. I missed out on a lot with my kids; I wasn't spending any time with friends or family. I didn't have any time for dating or even just getting out and having fun.

So I decided to let the business go. I quit!

I decided I needed to do what mattered most and that was being a better mom and spending more quality time with my kids. I worked a full time job and I made roughly about the same income as I was making after expenses in the business but with a whole lot more time freedom and a lot less stress. Life became a lot more simplified and I became a whole lot more happy. My kids started to behave better and their grades went up in school.

In my heart I was still sad because I wanted to own my own business and become successful but I felt it wasn't worth losing my relationship with my kids and the stress it caused me. I still wanted to do my own thing but I put some boundaries around what I was willing to sacrifice in order to obtain my success. So I decided to take a break from business and wait until I found something that had great potential without all the sacrifices.

That's when I found this amazing opportunity that just made sense. A business I could build part time that could make me residual monthly income. mycashkey.com

I could set my own hours and I could work on it when I had time around my job and kids. There was no pressure and it allowed me to use my creative side. I could work on building it and build my success to a point where I could leave my day job and actually have even more time for my kids and other things. I could have even greater success and not feel stressed and burned out, not sacrifice what mattered most and find the success that gave me the lifestyle I could be proud of.

Now I live the life I had dreamed of and my family relationships are stronger than ever. The kids and I now get to have fun adventures and do some pretty awesome fun stuff that we didn't get to do before. I feel so blessed being able to give my kids these kinds of memories. To be a mom who was fun to grow up with instead of the mom who was so stressed out and angry all the time.

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With Love,

Heather Allie